About The Book

For fans of Cheryl Strayed and Glennon Doyle, a raw and redemptive memoir of surviving generational trauma, caregiving, and spiritual awakening that chronicles one woman’s journey from southern survival to West Coast freedom.

When her elderly mother shoots her abusive husband—Deborah’s father—in their Arkansas home, Deborah is thrust into a storm of media frenzy, grief, and caregiving. As she fights for justice, supports her paralyzed wife, and battles personal demons, Deborah begins to unravel a deeper legacy of generational trauma—and realizes the need to rescue herself.

Told with gripping honesty, Grace Through Fire follows Deborah’s odyssey through murder trials, chronic illness, financial collapse, and spiritual reckoning. From the chaos of the rural South to the stillness of yoga studios and the healing waters of Lake Powell and Crater Lake, Deborah rediscovers her strength, sobriety, and purpose.

This is a narrative of transformation and fierce resilience—a memoir for anyone who has ever questioned their worth, carried the pain of their family, or longed for a fresh start. At the heart of it all is a bold love story, a leap of faith, and one woman’s courageous choice to create a life of freedom, service, and light on the California coast.

About The Author

Deborah Samuel was born in Rogers, Arkansas, and spent two decades as an award-winning educator for at-risk youth before being named National Physical Education Teacher of the Year. A licensed pilot and aircraft mechanic, she also flipped nearly thirty homes before transitioning into luxury real estate. Today, she is a senior specialist realtor and a cofounder of SB SOS, an organization that helps older adults in transition. She lives aboard a classic yacht with her spouse and their black cat in Santa Barbara, California.

Product Details

  • Publisher: She Writes Press (October 6, 2026)
  • Length: 256 pages
  • ISBN13: 9798896361626

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Raves and Reviews

"This memoir is a radiant example of what it means to transform adversity into grace. With vulnerability and insight, Deborah offers a story that is both deeply personal and universally empowering."—Mary Morrissey, Founder, Brave Thinking Institute

Grace Through Fire is as heartbreaking as it is heartwarming. Deborah Samuel’s story is one many women can relate to—picking up pieces of a shattered life and turning it into a beautiful mosaic.”—Lois P. Frankel, PhD, New York Times best-selling author of Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office and the Nice Girls Don’t Series 

"This remarkable memoir is a testament to the courage and tenacity that it takes to emerge from the shadow of trauma—and to Deborah’s ability to write about the extraordinary events of her life with an unflinching eye. Deeply moving."—Virginia Lloyd, literary consultant and author of Girls at the Piano and The Young Widows Book of Home Improvement

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